Living in France: a survival kit

I found this in the book “[amazon_link id=”2228898368″ target=”_blank” container=”” container_class=”” ]Les Français aussi ont un accent[/amazon_link]” by Jean-Benoît Nadeau. It’s a very funny book relating the experiences of the author while he was living in France from 1999 to  the end of 2000. An acute observer, he has very good points to make on French society and the French people and it is well worth a read if you are interested in this country. The book is in French, but the same author has also written: “[amazon_link id=”1861057156″ target=”_blank” container=”” container_class=”” ]Sixty Million Frenchmen can’t be wrong: why we love France but not the French[/amazon_link]”, which is in English. I haven’t read it yet, but I am sure it is just as good.

Here are 4 points that have helped him survive his two years in France:

  1. Only smile if someone asks you to. — In France, someone who smiles without obvious reasons is either a prostitute, an idiot, a door to door salesman or an American, which is not much better.
  2. Apologize before asking for information, and explain the nature of your problem. — French people like to help.
  3. When visiting a shop, always say “Bonjour” on the way in, and “au revoir” on the way out. — In North America, any shop is an extension of the public place, while in France it is an extension of the home of the shop owner, hence the need to introduce oneself. This explains also why one gets such a bad service in big retail stores: there is no way to make yourself heard by everyone when you say hello on the way in. They could put loudspeakers.
  4. Converse quietly. — The French have an acute sense of privacy and they hate feeling invaded.

These are helpful and I’d say that if you want your next French holiday or short term mission to go well you should try to put them into practice.

 

2 thoughts on “Living in France: a survival kit”

  1. I started reading Sixty Million Frenchmen Can’t be Wrong a few years ago. It was good – I should really finish it some day. And I’ll have to get the French one as well.

  2. Finished reading it this Lunch time. You really should start reading it again from the beginning and finish it this time. After that, just observe and listen to people carefully using it as a grid to decrypt what they do and say. You’ll start realising how tru most of these things are.

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